NIMBYism is reflexive
Cambridge housing stock has an easy style to match, if you make the effort (from ColdwellBankerHomes.com)
I support making it easier to build multifamily buildings anywhere in Cambridge where that makes financial sense. I am a YIMBY.
Sometimes I still react like a NIMBY
Recently, a neighbor who provides a lot of neighborhood news noted that a two-family for sale around the corner could be redeveloped for up to nine units of housing with a total of 10,000 square feet of gross living area (gross living area doesn’t count basements or unfinished areas in the total).
My first response was to be appalled. Really? Such a big building? In our neighborhood?
My second response was to be both embarrassed and enlightened by the first. And that first response is something any housing advocate has to be aware of and take into account. Most of us are reflexive NIMBYs. We react to a new building the way we would to having someone tell us they were moving into our backyard.
Even though I know better
But while the response is natural, it is not admirable. You do own your backyard (if you have one), but you do not own your neighborhood. The fact that you take a proprietary interest in it doesn’t actually make you its proprietor. Particularly if you haven’t helped it in any way and are not responsible for any of its “character.” You feel that way even if you don’t know a single one of your neighbors, except to wave to as you drive in and out of it on your way to other places.
In many places, “community” is more a nostalgic fantasy than a reality. Hence, the popularity of fictional portrayals of neighborhoods coming together to keep out developers.
Appreciate natural NIMBYism when seeking to persuade others
Our approach should not be to take this attitude head-on and show people why they are wrong to react this way. Many people, if given a chance to take a breath and consider things, might find that they aren’t so averse to new housing near them. The mockup at the end of the listing photographs, most likely quickly generated by an AI, shows that even a larger building wouldn’t be out of scale. And by choosing a style consistent with surrounding buildings, the realtor is lowering the emotional temperature.
Cambridge’s new zoning permits multifamily structures in every neighborhood. People usually call this “eliminating single-family zoning”, which seems to imply that it bans single-family homes. Actually, you can still build one, and, actually, a larger one than you previously could. More and more multifamily buildings will be proposed throughout the city. We should be prepared for the inevitable emotional reaction and help people think through it from the first. Waiting for everyone to entrench their positions will only lead to debilitating struggles.
Not that everyone will be persuaded
That doesn’t mean everyone will suddenly become an ardent YIMBY. Many will oppose new housing, no matter what the arguments. But there are many people in the middle who can realize how much trouble decades of housing prohibition has gotten us into, and how we need to provide everyone with the freedom to get us out of it.
How angry would you be to find that someone was building multifamily housing in your neighborhood?